A Beautiful Day

Today was an unexpected blessing for me. What with unusual events of the past couple of weeks, including my son’s surgery, I have been experiencing a great deal of weariness. I’m not sure why our brains do not keep up with our bodies, but it is a fact. In my mind, I am still young and viable. However, the years have taken its toll on my body. Excess weight combined with arthritis has been a real detriment to my doing all the activities I once enjoyed. Perhaps some of you have found this to be true also.

Anyway, why was today a blessing? Let me explain. Charlie and I were scheduled to join some friends on a bus trip to Atlantic City. The reservations were made well ahead of time and everyone but me was excited about being together and having some fun. As I mentioned above, I have been extremely weary and just wanted to “veg” out, instead of all the walking I foresaw for the day. I knew it would be a stretch for me to be companionable and upbeat during the long day this bus trip would entail.

This is where God, with his wonderful compassion, stepped in. He created some emergency circumstances that resulted in our having to cancel our trip to Atlantic City. The other two couples were able to continue with their plans, but Charlie and I had a more relaxing day. I was able to make some necessary phone calls, take a nap and gather my wits a little bit, while Charlie visited with his son Tom who had flown in from Dallas, Texas.

Everyone can fairly well comprehend God answering prayers when there is a major crisis situation. However, I have found He is there for me in small helpful ways, i.e., giving me a day off. Perhaps you, too, can relate some small instance where God has worked a small miracle for you. Let me hear from you how God has worked in your life.

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Farewell, Rosemarie

Today a wonderful woman was laid to rest. Rosemarie Seydel McCloskey, born May 24, 1930; died August 11, 2008 was a wife, mother and grandmother. According to her family, she was a very loving woman with a great deal of faith in God and her religion.

I knew Rosemarie as a member of the Gateway Club of Catonsville. For the last year and a few months of her life, she was the President of Gateway. During this time and the previous year or two, Rosemarie experienced many serious health issues, wherein her inner strength, fortitude, hopes for the future, and her love of God were tested. With the loving care of her family, Rosemarie rebounded time and time again, surprising everyone with miraculous recoveries. We all marveled at her keen memory and easy humor with which she met each of these obstacles.

Rosemarie’s husband Bill never gave up on her. He was her knight in shining armor, her spokesman when she could not speak for herself. He fought alongside of his beloved wife until the end. Their six daughters and their families were guardians at her bedside as she kept fighting to keep hope alive.

There is no doubt that Rosemarie had legions of guardian angels accompany her as she made her way to heaven. She continues to inspire us to be better human beings. Her memory will not fade away as the love, which sustained her, continues to burn in each of our hearts. May God bless her family, her friends, and all who had made her acquaintance during her 78 years on earth?

Farewell from your earthly family! Welcome to heaven, Rosemarie!

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Another Crazy Week

This is the week I was going to catch up with all the backlog of chores and begin relaxing a bit. This was not to be. God had other plans for Charlie and me.

There was a long period of time when I was not in touch with my only son John. What kept me going was that I knew he loved me and that he knew I loved him. Somehow a parent knows these things. After several years, we finally got back together and saw each other from time to time. John is 42 years old and has gone through some tough times, but he is now employed at a job he likes and he is taking college courses, optimistic of the future.

However, another minor setback has occurred in the form of basal cell carcinoma on John’s head. This setback offered Charlie and me an opportunity to play a role in helping John out a little bit. On Tuesday, we left the house about 4:30 a.m. to pick up my son and take him for outpatient surgery. He was to be at Doctors Community Hospital in Greenbelt by 5:30 a.m. for the 7:30 surgery. The surgery went well, but the pain was more than John anticipated. As my son is single, but living with his father, we invited him to recover for a day or two at our home if he wished. After returning home around 11:30 a.m., we pulled out the sleep sofa in the spare bedroom for him. Needless to say, Tuesday was a day everyone was sleepy from the early wakeup hour, and we all had a long nap. The next couple of days were kind of lost in a fog. John found it difficult to chew anything so we had to find things he could eat easily. He was in and out of bed, going from the bedroom to the sofa and back again. Slowly, the pain began to ease enough that today, Friday, John returned to his dad’s home. John admitted that he was still sleeping on a blow up mattress he had borrowed. This knowledge made me feel relieved that I had given him two new pillows and fresh pillowcases. At least, his poor swollen head would be comfortable as he recovers enough to return to work on Monday.

We know many of you also have had to pitch in with your grown children to help them through some tough times. It is heartache to watch your children deal with setbacks; however, it is a joy to see that they can handle themselves in a mature manner. This is a testimony to loving parenting that is a gift from God. God is guiding us, and we are grateful.

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Two Restaurant Reviews

During the summer, many of us travel to the Eastern Shore of Maryland for sun and fun. One of the major activities we enjoy is eating in restaurants. Here are two great places to try. One is in Bethany Beach, Delaware; one is along the road to Chincoteague, Virginia.

When traveling to the Ocean City, MD area, continue a little further north and check out the Chalkboard Tavern and Grille at Route 1 Marketplace, Suite 116, Bethany Beach, Delaware. Charlie’s nephew, Bob Webster, who employs his family, along with other capable workers, to assist as bussers, waiting tables, etc, manages this delightful restaurant. Charlie and I enjoyed a wonderful lunch there with Bob’s parents. I wisely chose a grilled tuna sandwich, which was perfectly cooked and melted in my mouth. Charlie could not resist the soft shell crab sandwich. We also treated ourselves to the Tavern Fries. The Chalkboard offers inexpensive lunch specials every day, which are affordable for vacationers. For anyone staying in the area, ask about the VIP Club. For a prepaid $100 VIP card, members enjoy $125 worth of meals and are eligible for a free birthday dinner. Open for Breakfast, Lunch, and Dinner. Phone 302-539-7482 or check online at www.chalkboardgrille.com.

If you love “all you can eat” shrimp, head to Ray’s Shanty, 32157 Chincoteague Road, Route 175 East, Wattsville, Virginia, which is 1.5 miles off of Route 13 on the road to Chincoteague. Steamed shrimp are Capt. Ray Twiford’s specialty and each platter contains close to 2 lbs. of perfectly steamed shrimp. French fries, cole slaw and hushpuppies come with the meal; however, a baked potato or salad may be substituted. Three of our four diners chose the steamed shrimp and ate their fill of the delightful crustacean. Only one shrimp eater was able to ask for a refill. As is usual for me, I chose the marinated grilled tuna platter, which was so delicious that one might believe it came from a five-star restaurant. The restaurant is closed Mondays and Tuesdays. Opens at 11:00 a.m. Phone 757-824-3429 or check online at www.RaysShanty.com.

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Hi, Everyone

Dear Friends...

Due to an influx of family coming to visit and a couple of overnight trips to visit friends, Charlie and I have been out of the loop. However, do not despair! We will be back next week with lots of interesting articles about our recent activities. At least one will be regarding our visit to Chincoteague during pony penning week.

We are thrilled that you are still checking in with us to see what is new and are sorry if we have disappointed you in the last couple of weeks.

Keep checking our website. We think you will be glad.

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A Fun Evening

Almost on the spur of the moment, with out-of-town guests to entertain, we decided to try Lorenzo’s Timonium Dinner Theatre for their production of “The Odd Couple; Female Version.” I have to admit that, in the past, our dinner and/or show had been less than average. However, this night everything was just right. The food was perfectly prepared, delicious, and plentiful.

The play was a big surprise! First of all, the Director came out and announced that the two lead actresses were not available that night. Luckily, another theatre had recently done this play and the leads from that production would be filling in tonight. Well! When Olive (the messy one) appeared on stage wearing a beard and sporting a hairy chest under the low cut blouse, everyone was blown away. What was this all about? Then, when Florence (the neat one) appeared and hairy legs were prominent under the dress, more question marks appeared above our heads.

At intermission, we perused the cast bios and discovered that the lead roles were none other than Anna Conda (Anaconda) playing Olive, and Wendy Bough-Breaks (When the bough breaks) playing Florence. Then we knew! We had been “had.” Needless to say, the play was a total “hoot” from beginning to end.

If you wish to avail yourselves of this fun time, Lorenzo’s Timonium Dinner Theatre is at 9603 Deereco Road, Timonium, MD. Call 410-560-1113 or go online to www.timoniumdinnertheatre.com for tickets or more information. Hurry, as this show ends August 3^rd.

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A Restaurant Review

With today’s trend toward franchise restaurants available in every shopping center nationwide, it is rare to find a family- or owner-run small, but homey, restaurant. This has to be a very delicate type of business to start up and keep going.

Today (Tuesday) Charlie and I had occasion to meet our friends, Dave and Karen who live in Manchester, Maryland, for dinner in Hampstead. Karen had expounded several times about the New Sunset Inn and Restaurant and its wonderful steak special. Unfortunately, the steak special is only available on Thursdays and Sundays. Therefore, we could not avail ourselves of that particular menu item tonight. Instead, the four of us opted to have the hot turkey sandwich, highly recommended by the owner. Indeed, it met our expectations. There is a choice of homemade mashed potatoes or French fries. All of us had the most abundant and delicious gravy, which had parsley to enhance the flavor. In addition, I had a very nice fresh side salad, while Karen ordered a side dish of zucchini, one of her favorites.

The atmosphere of this small town eatery is unpretentious, but there are indications that loving thought has been taken to provide a cozy ambiance for the casual diner. Keith, the owner, host, and waiter, is very proud of his menu, his cooks, and gives great attention to having the freshest homemade food available. And, did I mention the prices are very reasonable? I do not believe in providing a star-type rating for businesses; however, if I feel strongly about a place, I am pleased to share my experience with you.

So, if you are taking a Sunday drive up Route 30 toward Pennsylvania, or if you just want to explore new horizons, the New Sunset Inn is located at 1301 Main Street in the heart of Hampstead, Maryland. The phone number is 410-374-6969 if you wish to get further information on location, menu, etc.

Be sure to mention that you read my review. Everyone loves positive reinforcement.

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